Truest statement in the history of relationship are
also the most vague statements:- "Is it the right time to propose?? Whether
I should propose or not" because "when you know, you know". All
of us have watched movies, have seen the romantic proposals and fantasized
about them. Talking about girls their fantasy fly high, that one fine day their
prince charming will come ridding on horse in shinning armour and will pop the
question. But when I talk about men, they struggle with question "when and
how to propose”, and, the fear of rejection runs high on their nerves. With all
the fantasies and fears in a mix it becomes really difficult to calculate what
is the right time?? Also with this I have two more questions: Should girls pop
up the question?? Should only boys pop up the question??
Firstly you should be sure about your partner. Also
your partner should support you in all ups and downs of life. Not only this
he/she should support you emotionally, should build you up, and should help you
chase your dreams without giving up their dreams, and so should be same by your
side. Also "Sometimes love is not the only thing you want", so this
decision should be taken with care and understanding all pros and cons.
Communication plays a key role in building a
relation. Make sure you communicate with your partner, well, in sharing your
dreams and ideas, your future plans, your expectations and everything. If you
find difficult in communicating about what you feel about spending life
together, then, it might be difficult to spend life together.
When is the
right time??
If you feel you and your partner know each other
well, you think in same direction and understand each other dreams and
expectations, and you support each other in decisions and discuss with each
other in taking important decisions, then its jut the right time to hit the
nail. Go ahead and propose your love in a romantic way.
Should girls pop up the question??Well yes it is
perfectly alright for a girl to pop up the question, if you share the level of
comfort with your beau. And for guys it is alright to accept proposal from a
girl, as what really matters is your compatibility and comfort with each other,
can you spend life together, not who asked who.
As long as you two share comfort, are ready to
spend life together and are deeply in love with each other, this is just the
right time to propose. If you feel that there is something which might be
missing in your relationship then you need to give it some more time.
So friends if you are ready and all set to propose
to your heart, or if someone else pops up the question to you and you ready to
say yes, then all the best to you and love to you two, for your future.
Lovely post dear.. the pictures made it even more interstingg!!
ReplyDeleteIt took me to my college dayss.. its so difficult to pop up this question... !! :D
Thanks poo... Actually when I was writing this post I had my college days in my mind... This is a really difficult question and is more difficult for boys than for girls as the fear loosing our friendship runs through their nerves. What I feel is if girls make boys comfortable then this will make easier for a guy to take decision.
ReplyDeleteMaking a boy comfortable means drawing a line first and then making him comfortable.